the yoga of relationships
Week 1 :: Personal Myth
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Attachment theory states that the security (or lack thereof) of the bonds we received as children determine our adult attachment style in relationships.
We seek to recreate the form of “love” that we received as children. In other words, we recreate relationships that feel similar to our nervous system as adults.
Epigenetics is the study of how trauma is passed down on the layer on top of our DNA.
We can use methods of subconscious and subtle body healing such as meditation, energy work, plants, etc. to rewire patterns in the brain/nervous system, and create balanced and healthy relationships.
Myths as stories can inspire freshness in our relationships and take us beyond our patterns.
A myth that limits us is an un-investigated story that we subconsciously believe in.
What types of partners/relationships do you seem to attract?
What coping strategies do you employ when triggered in relationships? (eating, sleeping, spiritual practice, sex, work, internet, TV)
What cultural, familial, or religious myths did you grow up with? (“All men are unreliable cheaters”, “We are genetically predisposed to addiction”, “God will punish you for xyz”)
What myths/stories were you attracted to in childhood? Which characters did you resonate with and why?
Week 2 :: Working with Wounds
Looking at previous/current relationships will show us recurrent patterns and determine our “attachment style” (anxious, avoidant, secure) in various relationships
Learning what your go-to sympathetic nervous system response is “fight, flight, or freeze” can help you be present with your body when triggered and start to listen to somatic cues
Our wounds hold the wisdom of our deeper desires to be loved, seen, and accepted
Mountain Energy versus River Energy (see video)
How polarity is vital to erotic tension in our relationships
Understanding polarity to attract a partners whose essence complements our own
How to balance masculine and feminine within ourselves through creating boundaries/structure and flow
Consider your sympathetic nervous system response when triggered — fight, flight, or freeze. Look at your relationship map from last week, and meditate on your previous relationships or situations when you were triggered. If you are having trouble, ask trusted friends or family members if they can illuminate this for you. Once you’ve determined your “go-to” response, journal on these questions for 11 minutes:
Who did this to me? (fight, flight, freeze)
Who did I see do this? (fight, flight, freeze)
Bonus: What’s is one boundary you’ve had trouble holding in the past? How would you restructure that boundary now? How would you communicate it? Name three ways you could support yourself in the process.
Summer 2019 Themes + Dates
Wednesday, August 7th, 2019 - 8-9 PM PST via Zoom
Wednesday, August 14th, 2019 - 8-9 PM PST via Zoom
Working with Wounds
Wednesday, August 21st, 2019 - 8-9 PM PST via Zoom
Wednesday, August 28th, 2019 - 8-9 PM PST via Zoom
Inner Marriage Healing Ceremony